Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Overcoming Hatred
Came across this interesting article...
For those who are hating someone, perhaps it is time to just release and let your hatred float away...
For those who have hated someone, maybe after reading this you will feel better and not think tt you are simply just been stupid and weak to stop hating.
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Qsn:
How do you overcome hating people?
Ans:
First you realize that its a waste of your time and energy. Then you realize that the hatred isn't affecting the people you hate at all. The only person who is suffering from it is you, so you are basically letting the people you hate make your life even more miserable. Next you realize that by hating people, you are letting them control what and how you think and behave.
Finally you come to the conclusion that hating people is a waste of time and you have better things to do than waste your time thinking about people who you hate. Life is too short. Start enjoying your life and make sure that you aren't acting the same way as the people you hate. My dad always said you can learn something from everyone...even if it is how NOT to act.
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Stop hating them, doesn't mean you are willing to forgive and forget the emotional or physical traumas they have put you through. Instead, it is just a way to start loving yourself by not adding more scars to your wounded body.
*P.E.A.C.E*
Posted by *+* xiAo mIn *+* at 9:15 PM
